戀愛七年

同老公23歲開始拍拖,我哋同年,都係1990

當初佢人工唔高,一年收一兩次禮物,所以有時都會羨慕嗰啲每個節日有得收禮物嘅朋友

逐漸大家一齊長大,三十歲啦。老公最近換咗份工,開始覺得周不時都有禮物收,仲要唔係過時過節。真係好感動。

1。11。11 shopping 會諗起我

就以個月,佢買咗對波鞋畀我,又接著買個dive comp 畀我。之前啲diving equipment,全部都係佢買㗎。

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2。我開始發現,食飯我已經好耐冇埋過單

唔止食飯,就飲酒,golf 錢 ,咖啡,佢都會幫我埋單。

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3。佢會主動約我父母食飯

以前冇咁主動,因為驚埋單時候無錢找數,尤其係月尾。一家人食飯通常幾百蚊在所難免,打工仔真係唔容易。而家經濟條件好啲,佢就每個月都會陪我屋企人出街食飯。

4。老公好支持我哋hobbies

佢就算冇出錢支持,但係精神上十分鼓勵。我真係一個乜都鍾意嘅人。Diving,golfing,學韓文,教鋼琴都繼續俾錢學鋼琴,做YouTube videos,買機整意大利咖啡。過去考瑜伽牌,讀master,佢都支持,最緊要係呢啲活動犧牲咗我哋啲拍拖時間,佢都冇怨言。。佢冇幫我俾錢,但係佢唔會干涉我點用自己啲錢,總之唔係嫖賭飲吹,我學得開心,佢都唔會反對,不過亦同時要求我唔會半途而廢。

5。會注意到佢會盡量抽時間陪我。

我23歲開始啲activities未聽過,以前要考鋼琴,學打golf,後來上門教鋼琴,教英文,我有時反而最驚就係weekend。忙唔緊要,而係不停揸車果度費神。所以唔係每個周末我哋都有機會見面。最近,佢都會遷就我嘅時間。即係揀平時weekday,或者weekend天黑過後,嚟陪我拍拖。但係無論weekend定係weekday,佢自己都好忙架。我哋每次見面,都係要悉心安排。

6.最犀利,係佢對我嘅容忍力

尋日,我發脾氣。我想自己買部Espresso Machine,又唔捨得,就唔開心咗幾日。老公唔鬧我,反而溫柔咁氹返我開心,摸下我嘅頭,摸下我塊面。最後帶我去買部機。我唔係要鬥佢出錢買部機俾我,亦唔係怨佢買唔起,只係純屬過唔到自己嗰關,又買玩具俾自己個種過度縱慾嘅無奈。

好多人會希望自己geh伴侶can read their mind, understand their needs without having voicing it out. This is what woman may behave unconsciously, sometimes. I tried to avoid having my husband guessing my mind, cz it wasn’t fun at all. However when the mood swing came, it’s hard to control our acts. It is during these difficult time, my husband understands me. He is well aware of why I was being mad, and he did not take it personally.

Author: Dona Liew

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